Is your faith, your marriage, your family life, or your time tested by the â€œif onlyâ€™s?â€
If only I had tried harder or not given up so quickly.
If only I had said this or not said that.
If only I had one more day or one more hour to do something differently.
How many times do we have to live with the regrets of an â€œif onlyâ€ because we gave up too soon? Do we give up because we lost confidence or felt like there was no hope? Do we give up because we donâ€™t feel like we can take the pain any longer? Do we feel like we are reliving Groundhog Day and we donâ€™t want to do it one more time?
What if God would have given up after he created the sun and the moon?Â What if God would have given up after he created Adam? What if God would have given up when Adam and Eve sinned? What if God had given up before He sent Jesus to us? What if God had given up before He sent us His Spirit to guide us? What if there were no apostles to spread the Gospels?
Sometimes I am tempted to give up on a goal because I feel as if everything is working against me. If only I had stayed on my diet and not given in to that one little brownie put before me. Sometimes I am tempted to quit because there just isnâ€™t enough time, so I put off what is truly important because of more urgent demands. If only I had spent time with family or friends instead of searching the Internet or reading junk mail/email.
Sometimes I am tempted to give up on societal problems because they are so large I donâ€™t know how I could possibly improve the situation or help solve the problem. If only I were more influenced by the example of the saints, like Mother Theresa who just kept moving forward for Godâ€™s greater goals and less influenced by the Joneses.
Sometimes I am tempted to give up because I donâ€™t see a personal reward or the person I am working with doesnâ€™t show any gratitude for the time commitment I have made to help them. If only I would remember that God rewards me with His grace even when I forget to say thank you for His blessings.
What is your â€œif only?â€ Is God Your strength? Will you persevere in seeking and finding His truth, living his commandments and serving others as he has called us to do?Â Make today a day that you set aside one â€œif only!â€
Heavenly Father, Your example of perseverance is perfect guidance and strength. Help me to focus on goals that are made for Your glory â€” my family, my health, Your time, and Your grace. Â Thank you for blessing me with this day, this hour to spend in Your presence. Help me not to give up too soon, but to move forward in Your path, towards Your light, guided by Your truth. Show me the way by guarding me from the evil that tempts me to give up so that I donâ€™t have to live with the regrets of the â€œif onlyâ€™s.â€Â Amen.
For further reflection, meditate on James 1: 2-25.