Power Questions & the Fullness of Faith

How would you answer this power question: What in your life has given you the greatest fulfillment? Today’s post is courtesy Sarah Underhill and she tackles it with us. 

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I took on a new work position last month, and with that change, brought on a new manager. He’s one of those managers who makes you want to work harder, who’s well-respected, successful, and is one of the reasons why I’m back enjoying my job again. (Oh, and can’t forget to mention he’s Catholic, so even more reasons to like the guy!).

At a sales meeting a few weeks back, he handed out a book to my colleagues and me, prefaced it by saying he’s not much of a business book kind of guy, but had the opportunity of meeting the author and wanted to pass the book along. Instantly, I was intrigued and have since found this book to not only be an aid in my professional life, but in my personal life as well.

Case in point: “What in your life has given you the greatest fulfillment?

That’s the question I pondered while reading the 10th chapter of the book, “Power Questions: Build Relationship, Win New Business, and Influence Others. The author challenges us to use this question to develop a deeper personal connection with a colleague or client, or even a friend or family member.

I stopped and thought about how I would answer that question. And then I stopped again, and thought harder. And then again. I was stumped for a bit. I have had a lot of great things happen in my (short) 30+ years here on Earth, but I was getting fulfillment confused with happiness. Fulfillment, as the author puts it, reflects a state of completeness, wholeness, and creates a sense of deep satisfaction.

And then it finally clicked for me — my faith. My faith is what has given me the greatest fulfillment in my life. Of course!

I confidently can say that, as I know that my Catholic faith has indeed made me feel complete, whole, and gives me so much satisfaction (and grace, I might add) for complete fulfillment. My faith has allowed me to develop relationships with people I might not have ever met before, who’ve taught me how to love and to forgive. It’s what keeps me grounded and always seeking and working to be the best version I can be. It’s provided me with a love for the Saints and Our Lady and a better understanding of what a sacramental marriage is to be. My faith has given me the strength to ride out the tough waves of life and it is what gives me the confidence of knowing that one day, I will be reunited with my father in Heaven.

I have indeed experienced fulfillment. Thanks be to God for the fullness of my faith!

What in your life has given you the greatest fulfillment?

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  1. says

    I agree, faith would be my short answer, but more specifically it would be learning the truth and beauty of Church teachings I hadn’t been exposed to in my first 20 years as a Catholic. I fell in love with the faith after falling slightly away during college (identifying as Catholic but not really practicing), and it was Divine Mercy and Theology of the Body that brought me back. I was in such need of God’s mercy and healing, and ToB explained why I was feeling so much hurt in the secular world. The Church has something to offer everyone, especially those who have fallen the farthest. These truths brought fulfillment to my life – not fleeting happiness, but finally a feeling of wholeness and purpose in life.

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